The Well-Being Of The Other
Are you genuinely concerned when it comes to the well-being of the other? Empathy is the ability to emotionally understand what other people feel and understand when our own well-being is becoming of concern.
- Learn to see things from the other persons point of view
- Image yourself in the other persons place.
Let’s try to put ourself in the other persons experience. This will mean that you will experience the emotion that the other person is feeling.
This means you must be able to be a really good listener as the other person opens up to share their problem with you. You will think long and hard about how this other person is feeling at this moment. It may feel overwhelming at times as others share their tragic events with you.
Learning to be open and receptive will allow more people to willingly open up to you. Eventually, you will learn when someone is telling the truth or not telling the truth. You may even find it difficult to set boundaries when it comes to others.
Learn To Strengthen Your Empathy Skills
- Imagine yourself in the person’s situation
- Inquire more
- Purely understand
- Be intune with their nonverbal communication
- Use your listening ear by being less interruptive
- Burned out
You Give What You Get
It all boils down to what our parents and grandparents have passed down to us. How we treat others is how we feel when it comes to how our loved ones have treated us and how we want to be treated.
Feeling empathy and concern for others include a wide range of actions; helping, sharing, comforting, and cooperating with another. When we help others we tend to experience negative moods less frequently. Helping others may be a greater way to reduce the impact of stress on our life.
Consistency does not mean being here today, gone tomorrow. Those who impact other lives stay at the task with reliable regularity. They’re consistent when it comes to the other person.
People who impact others are real to the core, they are solid, genuine are authentic. Those who impact us the most watch out for themselves the least. They notice our needs and reach out for help, are honestly concerned about our welfare, and are unselfish.
Press On To Other Matters
Possessing an enormous amount of enthusiasm for their labor they press on regardless of the odds. They are virtually unconcerned with the obstacles they are resilient and rugged they are tireless.
Who has impacted your life more than any other person?
Then Pharaoh, the king of Egypt, gave this order to the Hebrew midwives, Shiphrah and Puah. When you help the Hebrew women as they give birth watch as they deliver. If the baby is a boy, kill him; if it is a girl, let her live. But because the midwives feared God, they refused to obey the king’s orders. They allowed the boys to live, too. So the king of Egypt called for the midwives. “Why have you done this?” he demanded. Why have you allowed the boys to live?” The Hebrew women are not like the Egyptian women,” the midwives replied. “They are more vigorous and have their babies so quickly that we cannot get there in time.” So God was good to the midwives, and the Israelites continued to multiply, growing more and more powerful. And because the midwives feared God, he gave them families of their own. Then Pharaoh gave this order t all his people: “Throw every newborn Hebrew boy into the Nile River. But you may let the girls live.”
Standing near the cross were Jesus’ mother, and his mother’s sister, Mary (the wife of Clopas), and Mary Magdalene. When Jesus saw his mother standing there beside the disciple he loved he said to her, “Dear woman, here is your son.” And he said to this disciple, “Here is your mother.” And from then on this disciple took her into his home.
Make a sacrifice today for someone else but, don’t tell anyone you did so. If your mom is no longer living. Plenty of them would love to adopt you as their own. Senior citizen centers are full of them.
The Enemy Has Lost Control Of The Other
Procrastination will rearrange the facts just enough to gain your sympathy. Procrastination is a real thief, you’ll find yourself believing in this thief, quoting and defending the thief. This robber of life is awaiting the opportunity to take all you have when it comes to the time you have been given. Leaving you with excuses, rationalizations, and empty promises.
Days went by and you haven’t made that matter a priority. What are you dodging or postponing?
Distractions are everywhere that is near and dear to our heart. Are you intentionally putting off the most significant moment that you have been given by defeat?
Defeat dislikes ‘now’! That means get up and get going! Work brings profit, but mere talk leads to poverty!
Who can find a virtuous and capable wife? She is more precious than rubies. Here husband can trust her, and she will greatly enrich his life. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life. She finds wool and flax and busily spins it. She is like a merchant’s ship, bringing her food from afar. She gets up before dawn to prepare breakfast for her household and plan the day’s work for her servant girls. She goes to inspect a field and buys it; with her earning s she plants a vineyard. She is energetic and strong, a hard worker. She makes sure her dealings are profitable; her lamp burns late into the night. Her hands are busy spinning thread, her fingers twisting fiber. She extends a helping hand to the poor and opens her arms to the needy. She has no fear of winter for her household, for everyone has warm clothes. She makes her own bedspreads. She dresses in fine linen and purple gowns. Here husband is well known at the city gates, where he sites with the other civic leaders. She makes belted linen garments and sashes to sell to the merchants. She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future. When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness. She carefully watches everything in her household and suffers nothing from laziness. Her children stand and bless her. Her husband praises her. There are many virtuous and capable women in the world, but you surpass them all! Charm is deceptive and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised. Reward her for all she has done. Let her deeds publicly declare her praise.
for the light makes everything visible. This is why it is said, “Awake, O sleeper, rise up from the dead and Christ will give you light.” So be careful how you live. Don’t live like fools, but like those who are wise. Make the most of every opportunity in these evil days. Don’t act thoughtlessly, but understand what the Lord wants you to do.
Goodbye To Other Procrastination
What things have you been putting off from doing? Start with one and get it done no later than tomorrow.